May 25, 2011 · Your thoughts didn't kill him. You need to forgive yourself. Please stop blaming yourself for not going to the funeral. It's something you couldn't face or deal with. Especially at such a young age. The past is the past and can't be changed. Please find some way of dealing with your grief. There must besome type of support group you can reach ...

Jan 10, 2010 · My health actually suffered but here are some steps to take. Make sure the Internet is in a PUBLIC PLACE, like the living room never the bedroom. Learn a hobby which involves your hands like making objects or knitting. And try to change your everyday existance, for the Internet should be a ally not a enemy.

Oct 18, 2024 · We're all sorry that you went through what you did. You've taken steps that others never have to bring things to the light and that takes strength and courage. I hope you are feeling better by now, and I hope you can see from what others have been through in these posts, that you are not alone and you have a community wishing you well.

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Dec 20, 2009 · 6. Grieve your loss. It is a great loss. The grief process for this illness is identical to the grief process for the death of a spouse. You need to allow yourself to experience the entire process of grieving. 7. Get help for yourself to cope with this incredible challenge, either from your own counseling sessions, or a NAMI support group.

Jun 22, 2023 · I feel like my BPD is under control, I am making positive steps towards healing, I am taking care of myself; then boom. I meet a guy and everything starts spiraling. The negative thoughts begin, I start obsessively comparing myself, slip back into my negative coping mechanisms, feel a frantic urge to either run or push him away…

Aug 27, 2011 · I highly suggest the members here please try this out. If you are struggling on any of the steps in here, for example, not being able to identity the trigger, or the center of the flower, the emotions, any step, I will help you out. I encourage everyone to participate as I want to follow this up in the coming days with the next steps to take.

Apr 14, 2011 · Mnyk9s, these two steps will revolutionize your life! My family put up with so much @!$# and I was too self absorbed to realize how difficult I was to live with. Taking meds does not make you weak minded, quite the opposite, it will help you and your mind will be clearer, your emotions more within your control.

2 days ago · He opens the door for the dog, and he also opens the gate for us all. A few steps ahead: "I want to go back. I didn't tell Mommy I was coming." "Don't worry, dear, I told her. She knows about it, it's all settled and fine." "No, no, I really want to go back!" We all go back and he tells my mom he he's coming with us. Fine, we move on. Two more ...

Mar 16, 2015 · I get down when I think all she has done to me as an adult. I've moved on with the childhood stuff. But she hasn't changed one bit. I, of course hear what my therapist says but I will do what I feel I either have to or want to do. I am soft at heart. I've set boundaries but she continually steps over them. What do you think, be honest.